Monday, June 25, 2012

HO-in-TEL Del Coronado #40

For Curtis's 40th Birthday he wanted to do something Spectacular.  Since we would be traveling with 3 kids, that is a lot easier said than done.  So he decided to go to the World famous Hotel Del Coronado, near San Diego.  It was Beautiful, amazing, and a great place for a family.  We all had a fabulous time and would love to visit again, even the haunted room.
Dax with Hermit Crab they caught
A Bucket of Crabs



One of their beach friends

Dax and Derek catching sand crabs


Birthday Boy.  He wanted a bigger sundae for us to all split, but I thought we would eat to much and feel sick.  I think he was a little disappointed

Our own private Smores on the Beach, it was a great night
This is what you get for $138. I thought the ingredients would be a little more "special" for that price


This guy hung around our Balcony for a bit.  Great view of the Beach
We rented a bike for our entire family to ride around Coronado island






We had a fabulous time, the food, scenery, beach, and hotel were amazing.  We would love to go back.  Derek got over his ocean/sand bitterness and loved the boogie board.  When we went to the beach a few weeks ago he said he never wanted to get in the ocean again after getting blasted by a cold nasty wave.  This time we couldn't get him out of the ocean.



Monday, June 18, 2012

Rehab-a.k.a. Scout Camp

 Dax is pointing to the ceramic cup he made working on the Pottery merit badge
Derek doing archery are Cub Scout Day camp.


Dax and Derek both had the exciting adventure to attend scout camp this year. For Dax that would be an entire 6 days with no video games.  For Derek, it was 3 days from 1 p.m. to 11:00 p.m. considerable amount of time away from video games. However, Derek's experience was a bit of a BUST.
Derek had  Day camp and the Heard Pueblo and the theme was western. I went on the first day as a chaperone and it was a good thing I did.  

We arrived and it was HOT, they were running behind on the registration so the kids had to hang around in the heat, trying to find some shade.  We finally went in an hour late.  Although the entire thing is outdoors they do a good job, of making shade and trying to keep the boys wet.  

Derek went to the BB gun area first, they went through all the safety stuff, but then ran out of time so he didn't even get to shoot.  Then he went to archery, which was kind of fun.  By this time I had a sun/heat whatever you want to call it Headache.  I had a visor, tried to stay out of the sun as much as possible, and drank lots of water, but it was dang hot.  We then took the boys up to the swimming pool, which I thought would really cool them down. Then we ate dinner.  Our campsite was the furthest one away from the pool.  Once we got there our table was mostly in the sun, and not much in the shade.  I finally got up and sat on the rocks, but at least they were shaded.  Derek sat in the sun, I don't think he was drinking enough water, even though the camp/leaders were constantly reminding the boys to drink water.  Before I was finished with dinner Derek told me he wasn't feeling well and wanted to go walk through the sprinklers.  Since he needed to have a buddy with him at all times, I told him I would take him as soon as I finished my dinner, which I was almost done with.  BIG MISTAKE. I should have dropped everything and ran him over there.
 I took Derek over to the spray-down area and he wasn't feeling good.  Someone saw him and told him to go over to the first aid area.  I sat with him there for a while, but he just wasn't feeling better.  Then he threw up his dinner.  I thought good, "now you will feel better"  then he drank some water then threw up the water.  Long story short, he just kept throwing up and couldn't keep anything down.  Finally, I took him home about an hour early.  In his words, he got "Heat Disease" and had no desire to go back for the other two days.  This is unfortunate because he was having a good time until he got sick, but I couldn't blame him for not wanting to go back into that heat for two more days.  I was grateful I had Jury Duty in the Air conditioned building and had an excuse not to go back.

Dax had a totally different experience.  He went up to Camp Raymond in Parks, AZ which is between Flagstaff and Williams in the cool pines.  The same camp my brothers went to when they were Boy Scouts.  Curtis drove Dax and 3 other boys, Teddy Scott, Dallin Thomas, and Brigham Anderson up to camp early Monday morning.  Curtis stayed the first night up there, which I thought was good to help Dax get settled.  He was one of the youngest boys and it would be a long time away from home for him.  Besides coming home 100% filthy and with a big ring of chapped lips.  Dax had a great time, didn't miss his video games at all, and can't wait to go back next year.  WAHOO!! Success.  I know Scout camp can be a deal breaker for the Boy Scout experience, aside from learning all types of knots, Dax seems to be enjoying scouts.

Sunday, June 10, 2012

California Summer


Of Course, we had a great time as usual, and Trey being the car fanatic loved Autopia.  I can't remember how many times we had to drive those little cars and inhale the gasoline fumes.  But he was giddy each time we drove.  I always pushed the gas while he manned the steering.  He could barely see over the top and most of the time we just bumped from one edge to the other of the guide in the center.  Which only made Trey giggle even more.  Cars land wasn't open yet.  The Grand opening is scheduled to open in the middle of June.  We are assuming it is going to be madness with it being new and in the busy season, so we plan to come back another time.

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 A while back we found a wet suit at goodwill that would fit the kids, Curtis had one that would fit Dax, then we found one that would work for Trey.  A little big, but he is so cute in it.
 We decided to hit the beach.  We found a really nice beach near Laguna Hills. Although it was June, it was a chilly day in California.  Cloud cover and breezy.   I didn't dare stick even my toes in that water.  Especially for us AZ folks.
 The water was extremely cold, Derek got knocked over by a wave and decided he never wanted to boogie board again.....
 Wet suit boys

 On our adventure to visit all the  Presidential Libraries, we stopped by Richard Nixon's Library in Yorba Linda, not too far from Anaheim.  This is Dax and Derek in front of Neil Armstrong's astronaut suit.
Marine One.

This library is interesting because it is located at the actual birthplace and childhood home of President Nixon.  It had actually been sold, but when he was running for president his family had an opportunity to buy it again because they thought it would eventually be a historical place.  They were right.  As always very interesting stuff in these libraries, they recently added an entire room on Watergate and the documents that had been sealed were not released and included.  I think the favorite thing of the kids was there was a pistol that was actually used in WWII that was given to President Nixon by Elvis Presley.  The picture with Elvis and Nixon is one of the most popular.



Wednesday, June 6, 2012

No. 32- Jury Duty

Last week, I was called to Jury Duty.  I think I have been called about 3 other times, but I had good reasons to get out of it.  Even though I still have young kids at home, they didn't make it as easy to get out of it as previously.  It even said on it only if you can absolutely not get child care for one day then you need to appear.  I knew I could get someone for one day, but I was still hoping that by the time my day came that they wouldn't need me.  I call the number the night before and what??? Group number 3400 is to appear at 8:30 a.m. in downtown Phoenix.  That was not in my plan, but I immediately started making arrangements for  Trey for the next day.
I show up at 8:30 and ride the shuttle from the parking garage to the courthouse.  By the way, the shuttle was like a Tour Bus.  I could not believe how nice and plush it was.  I go through security, which I thought was extremely odd that I didn't even have to show ID only my Jury summons.  I could have handed it to anybody and had them show up for me.

I had prepared myself to sit and wait for the majority of the day, but surprisingly I was called back by 10:30 a.m.  Not too long after arriving, going through the Jury instructions, etc.. A bailiff meets us, a group of 60, at a staging area where she gives us all a number.  I was number 32.  This is how we are identified throughout the day.  After our name was called and we were given a number, our name was not mentioned again, only the juror number.  We are then led to the outside of a courtroom and we wait (standing, they wouldn't let us sit because there were not enough chairs for everyone) for about 20 min.  I think the worse part about Jury Duty is there is just a lot of waiting around, for unknown reasons.

We start to go through the Jury Selection process.  The Judge identifies the attorneys, and defendant and asks if know any of them, etc.  Then she tells us the trial will last about 3 weeks and is scheduled to end about June 27th.  She tells us that if we don't want to answer in front of everyone then we can ask to answer in private, which surprisingly only one person did the entire day. Then asks if there is anyone who can't do this schedule. This is when the excuses started coming.  You could immediately tell who was trying to get out of jury duty.  I raised my number along with about 20 other jurors.  I told the judge that I'm a stay-at-home mom to 3 and it would be difficult to find childcare for that long.  We were also planning a vacation for June 18,19th of the trial days. She didn't further question me, so I figured I would get out.  Most of the people that asked to be excused, were for work travel, self-employed etc. 

 One guy was a part-time courtesy clerk at Fry's and he didn't think he could get the time off.  I kind of think they could find someone to fill in for him. I thought the best excuse was the guy sitting in front of me who said he had Brain Damage and he couldn't remember things long-term, so he should be excused.  I wasn't convinced I believed him at this point.  They continue to ask us more questions since I'm a pretty private person I thought for sure I would want to tell the judge stuff in private.  As the day goes on, people are having to reveal pretty personal stuff about themselves, I felt we were all vulnerable, everyone has their issues/prejudices/ life experiences and after a few questions, I realized we were all strangers, and probably never see each other again nobody is perfect, the guards were coming down.

We then take a 90-minute lunch.  I thought 90 minutes was a bit excessive, half the time would have been plenty, but maybe the attorneys/judge need the time to prepare. 

We come back and the Judge tells us more about the case.  This employee had 15 counts of essentially creating fake invoices and embezzling from her employer.   UGHH!  I would have loved to hear about this trial.  I wrote a 10-page paper on white-collar crime/embezzling in college.  Oh well, not my time.

As the process continues, I am shocked at some of the things revealed by potential jurors. A lot of people had cousins/ siblings etc in jail, and some had been charged with DUI or marijuana possession, but some things were very surprising to me.  One woman sitting 2 seats down from me was beautiful, dressed very well, and looked so professional.  She revealed that her husband had been convicted of 2 counts of armed robbery 20+ years ago.  After she gave the time period, I thought for sure it was over and done, he had served his time and he is back to living a normal life.  She later revealed that he was still incarcerated. What??? How did she look so together with a husband like that?  Another woman said that a few years ago she was at a party with her family and her husband was shot and her niece was killed.  The final shocker was the man sitting right in front of me(brain damage guy) who at age 16 was arrested for MURDER??? What??? You always hear this stuff on the news, but I was shocked that I am in a room with people who are living these lives.  These are the people that you think "I'll never meet anyone like that"  Finally at 4:30 they sent us out so the Judge and attorney could select the 15 Jurors.  When we came back after about 20 min they read off the numbers of those who had been selected.  Surprisingly there were quite a few that wanted to be picked and they were disappointed when they weren't. I was not surprised by who was picked.  They all seemed to have it together and had very little baggage.

 I have to say it is quite an interesting experience to go through Jury selection and see the Judicial system work. I am glad I went. After this experience, I feel there is no place for us to judge anyone else.  I don't know anything about the defendant, or what the trial will be like.  After being in that room and hearing people's stories,  not even the trial I just realized we are all so human.  I do hope I have the jury duty experience again.