I am so happy, Derek finally got his Drivers License. Derek has been ready to get his license for several months, but because of COVID it wasn't possible because the DMV was shut down, then it was possible but it was a very long wait through the DMV.
Derek really didn't feel an urgency to get his license. Once Derek started his job at McDonald's I really wanted him to get his license. I felt it was unnecessary to inconvenience (mostly me) and the other drivers getting him to and from work on Saturday and Sunday mornings., Waiting for him to call for a ride etc when he was capable. Work wasn't the only place he needed me to drive him to and from especially when he was capable of driving himself, we just had to make it legal. I told Derek for my Birthday I wanted my gift to be that he got his license. Derek was sick the week of and the week after my birthday, so it didn't happen then.
I then promoted the Driver's license to be my Christmas gift. Derek set up his driver's test through the 3rd party on 12/8/20. The third-party was about triple the price of the DMV ($25 vs $112 for the travelers license) but the "convenience fee" was well worth it to get this task done.
We showed up, filled out the paperwork, then waited to do the road test. I was not near as nervous waiting for Derek to come back from his road test as I was with Dax. I don't think it had anything to do with their skill level being any different, I think Dax was just my first driver to go through that.
I saw Derek and the examiner come back in from the test. Out of the corner of my eye, I could see the examiner walking toward me as she headed toward her desk. Right as she walked past me she subtly said "passed" I looked up and Derek was waiting in the line to complete the next steps. I gave him a thumbs up. I was so happy and proud of him.
I went home and got online to buy him the Hamilton High student parking permit, although he couldn't officially park there until he received the permit which they would give him at school. They gave it to him at school on Thursday.
Friday morning Derek woke up and was getting ready to take the bus. I said why are you taking the bus? He said "because it is coming in a few minutes" I reminded him that was the whole point of me getting him an HHS parking permit for $60. I told him he can sleep in a little later and if he has to stay after school (often lately) I don't have to scramble to pick up him and Trey at the same time. He grabs the keys and heads out to the car. As he fumbles with the keys to open the car I hear the car panic alarm start chirping, then as he fumbles to turn it off it gets louder. I start laughing because he is new to this driving thing. I peeked out the window to watch him pull out. Oh no!! It is garbage day and I could see that he was going to back straight into the garbage can on the street. I kept saying out loud, "don't hit the garbage, don't hit the garbage" bonk... he hit the garbage. Luckily he didn't knock it over. He pulled back in and moved the car way over to back out. I was laughing at such Rookie mistakes that he will only learn through experience.
When Derek got home from school I asked him how it felt to drive himself. He said it was alright, but he would prefer to take the bus, it wasn't worth the hassle. WHAT are you talking about? the freedom and independence of driving yourself versus waiting for the bus outside in the cold or heat (depending on the time of year) riding in the noise and chaos of loud kids blaring their music, and you could sleep in 15 more minutes. What is wrong with this kid? It turns out the windows were all fogged up and he didn't know how to use the defroster (We never got to that lesson learning to drive in Phoenix). He actually didn't even know the defroster existed, and that he why he hit the garbage can because he couldn't see it. He would rather ride the bus than deal with driving in frosted fogged up windows. I showed him how to use the defroster, then the next morning he drove himself to work at 5:45 am. It was wonderful for me. Then I could go about my day and he drove himself home when he was done, I didn't have to wait around for him to call for a ride. We never know exactly what time he gets off, it just depends on how busy they are, so it is kind of a pain for us.
After he had been home from work for a bit we were talking and he went "wait so I can drive myself to Maricopa (20 miles each way) to see my friends today" YEP. OHHHH the realization of the freedom and independence of having a driver's license is finally sinking in. It was a great moment for me.



















































